the magnificent danger of a woman’s beauty

from a young age, beautiful women are conditioned to be externally oriented and taught to allow others to devour our energy until we are a lifeless bag of bones.

beautiful women are used for entertainment, for sex, to be surrogate mothers for insecure men and a faux allies for patriarchal possessed, envious women - all to ensure no one is threatened or made to feel small by the power we hold.

if no one is threatened, then we are safe. but over time, the prioritization of not stepping on anyones toes over allowing our radiance to shine becomes a prison - where we drain the blood of our Eros and let others drink it - in hopes that they might experience some of the magnetic allure that comes with being erotically attuned.

the beautiful woman must be willing to set aside her people pleasing, fawning tendencies, and allow herself to be a threat. she must allow herself to be hated.

and most importantly, to counteract the influence that vampiric energies have over her, she needs to become more of a vampire herself. she needs to understand what it feels like to devour, instead of constantly allowing her energy to be eaten.

we can hate it or love it - but being beautiful and having sex appeal gives women massive amounts of power in this world.

this is not morally wrong or right.

it just is. better to play the game than deny or resist it.

but because we have been conditioned to fear power, to associate power with evil billionaire men destroying the planet, or to associate power with being burned at the stake, we will willingly allow ourselves to be emptied of our life force, all to avoid taking responsibility for ourselves and wielding this magnetic, mystical force within us.

because we are not taught to see our beauty and raw sexuality as an asset for power in this world, we are naive to the effect our sensuality has on the people around us.

this naivety makes us easy to be controlled, used, and manipulated.

therefore beautiful women will become ensnared by insecure men and women who subtly try to destroy us.

when a woman has spent her entire life being food for others, and passively letting men and women consume her life force with no return on investment,

it does her well to become a devourer.

the beautiful woman must give herself permission to own her beauty, her sexuality, and pay no mind for the insecurities that it triggers in others.

she must allow herself to outshine, out perform, and be desired more than those around her without apologizing, without subconsciously punishing herself for it, without trying to make herself small. she must understand that it takes a certain kind of man and woman to run with her without being threatened by her, and refuse to settle for empty relationships until she finds these brave souls.

once the beautiful woman awakens to the power that she has to influence the people around her, she can become a force for immense good in the world, and use her beauty as an asset for her gifts.

she is no longer easy prey or a ripe target for manipulation.

when she is full of herself, and no longer full of other peoples projections of her, she is an unstoppable force of nature.

sincerely, me,

a siren